Tuesday, February 10, 2015

Luck is For Kids


“Everybody has a default 50 marks in every exam. When you read, then pray, you’ll get up to 70. Do you know where God will take the 20 marks from? From people who didn’t read and were busy praying!” – Ebuka Okafor – 2008.
When I was in Primary 6, there was this National “GiftedProgramme” exam we were to write. My school was to present two candidates to enter for the regional testing, before the state testing. Our teacher, just to be fair, organized a Math test to pick the 2 candidates. I think she just wanted to find who will accompany me. I was the baddest guy in the class then ;)

So we wrote the test, about 25 questions, and exchanged scripts to mark. I had the highest score with 96% (24/25). There were about 4 other guys who had 92% (23/25) and some kind of test was used to pick one of them to join me. (Told you!)

Going through my test script later, I found out that there was a mistake, I had actually failed one other question but my marker failed to score it down. What really happened was, during the problem solving and marking session, my answer to that question was initially picked as the correct one, but upon better analysis, it was found to be wrong. My marker had scored it up for me earlier, but he forgot to effect the change after the correction. I was lucky. I would have had to join the 4 other badt guys (including the guy that made the mistake) and they were really tough to beat. I was really lucky.

We went for the regional round, I made it through to the state rounds (the other guy didn’t) and made it through that into the FEDACAD programme. Maybe I wouldn’t have, had my friend not made the mistake on my script. But how about the other 2 rounds that I scaled past? Was that also luck?

What does luck really do? In our journey towards fulfilment, what role does luck play? Is luck something we can count on and credit success to, is it tangible enough to build our hopes around? Is it sustainable enough to bank your progress on?

Luck is thin. It’s a short-lived, limited resource. Luck is like a breast handkerchief or a bowtie on a suit: unique enough to make you stand out, but really small. If luck was all you had going for you, it’s like you’re wearing a nice bowtie on mechanic’s overall. Luck is like salt; just a pinch can bring out the beauty and flavour of every other ingredient in the pot. But you have to have other ingredients in the pot. Imagine getting salt in hot water instead of correct egusi soup because someone expected the salt alone to perform wonders?

There are a lot of other things involved in fulfilment and achievement than just luck. Luck is not a feature, it is an add-on. Being so limited and short-lived, there is not enough of it to make up for so many shortcomings and not for long enough too. Luck is too fragile to handle that much responsibility, it collapses under pressure.

I think luck likes to associate with progress, just like ladies. I believe that if you have every other thing in place, luck will come. I believe that when people win at lotteries or in gambling, luck was unlucky to be in the wrong company.

Forget luck. Stop building your expectations on something that fragile. Life is too valuable, too important and too delicate to be left to luck and chance.

Take responsibility, stop waiting to be lucky, be brave, be audacious, be committed, be persistent, be awesome and you’ll find that you are constantly flocked by luck, just like ladies.